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Aug 13 11 7:58 PM
I note that after ~2 years of using a phone with a keyboard, and telling me she can't figure out how to type on it, when I am simply not answering her phone calls, she has suddenly magically acquired the ability to send texts from her phone
She also sent me a long email starting with "I love you" with rationally constructed sentences and details about what is bothering her. Which makes it very hard to ignore. I am going to call her soon.
To me this sounds like classic BPD abandonment paranoia. Plus projection (she's the one self-admittedly flirting with other men).
I want to tell her that reconciliation is possible but first she needs to work on these issues (we need to work on our separate issues is the polite way to say this) and only after we see sustained and consistent improvement should we try to move forward on any reconciliation plans.
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