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Ghada, you took away some of my "best lines" when you edited it
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Just kidding...I know the original one is probably too heated and confrontational to send, and in the end I will probably do what I have done for the majority of these 5 months and not send anythimng because it is most likely pointless
At this point in time, my best chances for maximizing everything is to go the distance because her mind is clearly not operating on a level that can comprehend fairness or anyone else's hurt in this situation, not even the kids. I stand a better chance with the judge's final outcome being fair then I do hers. How sad is that?
It just pisssses me off that I am currently shouldering the load on all the expenses, including our shared debt, and paying out all that child support as well, while she lives with her mom and in the process drags this out so on top of all that other financial responsibility I have, I have to pay out more for an attorney. I got notice in the mail that I have already used up my $1,200 retainer and I feel that very little has been accomplished thus far on the way to a resolution. The system is flawed...all the debt and financial responsibility falls on me, despite my wife working full time, and if I sneeze and the attorney says God Bless You, I get charged $75. I don't dare ask for a kleenex as that would be an extra $150. I don't blame my attorney, but I do blame this f'd up situation and my wife for her inability to even come close to something fair and reasonable
Let's hope that in an angry moment, I don't slip and send that email or any other one's I may be able to come up with on the fly because damm I got alot of crap off my chest in a aggressive yet eloquent way....and it felt good!
Just gotta keep reminding myself that this is a marathon and not a sprint and to keep chugging along with what I am doing, even when it feels better to lash out at her. I guess I have to remember it is that rational bit of thinking that separates us from them
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