My divorce cost me $10,000 and the judge did say he would be liable for the $11,000 he owes me so what does he do? He turned around and filed chapter 13 bankruptcy and puts that debt on it so now I have to spend $250 to file a lawsuit against him in bankruptcy court. I have already put my objection appeal in with the court since he has a hearing this week on it. The discharge hearing is in December and I have everything written and ready to submit but just waiting so it is closer to the deadline so his lawyer doesn't have a lot of time to prepare a defense on it. I am not done fighting him and like Phoenix I will go down kicking and screaming to hold him responsible for his financial problems. He did post some stuff on his facebook wall that he had open to the public about making me to pay for his debt. it was a personal attack against me so I copied and am entering it into court as evidence. I have researched and read family law chapters on bankruptcy and divorce so I have a lot on my side and I hope that the judge sees it.

I do wish my situation would have turned out different but I am a stronger person than I was a year ago. Phoenix I wish I had some advice to you and we both know that whatever we try to do with the person we are dealing with it will always be seen as controlling and manipulative.