Just spoke with husband about picking the cat next week. Was surprised that he answered my email (he usually doesn't).

He said what time to pick up the cat Thursday and then proceeded to tell me we have to decide who is going to keep the cat because constant interaction with me is "detrimental to his health" and " creates a link between us that he has been trying to sever for 5 months now."

That ain't no depression speaking....that's a husband telling his wife to hit the road and move on, and a man full of contempt.

Guess I have no choice now but to move forward.