Well, that's just it. I am speculating. But you're right: I want to jump on him and he has absolutely zero interest. For the longest time I thought it had something to do with me, but thanks to this wonderful forum I can now finally realize that it's not the case. Maybe he needs intimacy as much as I do, but is just unwilling to accept it? As of right now, he hasn't answered his phone in four days, and the last few times I've seen him, he's barely let me touch him and would physically pull away from me if I tried, which is out of character even for him. We haven't had sex since New Years, and that is just because we got really drunk. Aside from that, it's been almost a month. I should also mention that I am a female in my mid twenties, while he is approaching his late twenties.