Elatedonce wrote:


Can I ask what your thought process was when your wife would try to initiate sex and you weren't interested? I wanted to be left alone.  I barely could get out of my own way.  The depression has an overwhelming feeling of 3 emotions:  Anger, Sadness, and Apathy.  All 3 are the worst feelings when trying to have any form of intimacy.  That is why you probably have been pushed away.  Even the naughtiest outfits had no more effect.  Sad.   Also, did you try to get her to leave, no but I wanted her to leave and deep down were you relieved she stuck around during that time, or did you actively want her gone? O  Yes, I am glad now she did not leave.  At the time, I wanted just to be left alone.  Our house is big enough that we can be inside and not see eachother for hours. Your input is invaluable, thank you so much!!  Please keep the questions coming.  (if it is too personal, you can message me.)

 

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