As we are all putting it out there ladies, I am 43!!
And yes I agree I have finally come round to thinking about how I really feel than constantly wondering whats going on in his head..
And when you do that its scary as for me I have had to accept that I would find it oh so difficult to trust this man who completley broke my heart, smashed all my future dreams and left me to pick up the pieces of my life without even once asking how I was doing....
I agree with Erin, without meds/therapy it has to be a no brainer otherwise we are NOT loving ourselves and if we dont love ourselves how can we love another?
For me I would need him to not only do the meds and therapy but to apologise for what he has put me through, for once understand my feelings and move 3000 miles to be with me as I did for him.
And yes ladies I know, pigs might fly!!!
My new years resolution was to initiate no contact with him and get on with my life, Im holding it together JUST!
May we all get through this and find peace and happiness.
Hanik.