Proptart:  I can totally relate to the letter you wrote. It describes my DH and the way he has become over the past year or so. I have compared it to a demon or an alien taking him over. The way you describe your DH's behavior fits my DH's behavior to a "T". The only difference is that my DH has not expressed any love or even friendship for me. He has completely turned on me, treating me with a lot of hostility. It's a complete 180 in the way he used to be: sending me a dozen roses on my birthday and our anniversary, writing me love notes and leaving them around the house, things like that. But not anymore - he simply acts like the alien you describe in your letter and treats me like I'm a nobody. It really hurts.