Mino, my xDSO told me that he genuinely and sincerely believed that he was doing me a favour, I was better off without him as all he would do was drag me down, that is the D talking, they feel our emotional demands as they withdraw as pressure and DSOs do not respond well to pressure of any kind. WW gives good advice, start reading the various threads and at least at this point you will realise you are not alone, we are here to help!
Erin