Yes I do Alicea, I also felt this was the best relationship I'd ever had, we were so close, never a cross word between us, he is a lovely, kind, decent and gentle man, all I could have ever wanted and more in a partner, but he has an illness and this illness paralyses him, I think it also terrifies him and he genuinely believes that I am better off without him, I dont know if your DSO thinks this way or not, but I urge you to be prepared for whatever may come from sending it - I just wanted you to know that the silence which met my letter by email last March was devastating for me - I dont want the same thing to happen to you, if you are prepared to risk it, then please prepare yourself emotionally for that eventuality,
hugs,
Erin