I'm not entirely sure at the moment erin,part of me thinks he will appreciate it and know i am only doing because i care.heard nothing back from him since the break last wednesday,but he did tell me how amazing i was and how grateful he was that i was actully reading and educating myself in D in order to help and support him.But he has always been reluctant to let me help him with anything,like he thinks because he is a man he shouldn't need help from anyone.I will wait and see how the land lies in the next couple of weeks.