If your wife gave you the ultimatum back then do you think it would have helped you? You might just have to ignore it till she realizes she needs help. Yea I know easier said than done.. For my mom that's all what my family and I decided to do, nothing else was working (plus we were tired of trying). Over time my mom got better (about a year) but she still isn't totally herself. My mom still likes to post on facebook about how her life is so stressful and everyone else in the house has made her life that way (My mom sits at home watches tv, messes with her kindle, and makes dinner. That is her day almost every day). She still is reluctant to find a therapist but at least she is still on her meds.

Hey if you want you can mail me that ipad...I kind of want one, since I've never had one before.

One of my dreams

Her: You came, even know you're about to break. That's a good sign. So, why did you come?

Me:
I think...I want to be forgiven..more than anything

Her: By who?