How do I have her postpone any intimacy then?  Every day she talks about having children, and how much she suspects that I am cheating.  She also mentions that in order for us to have children that we have to have sex at the proper time (command performance.)  No pressure, right?  On top of this I am avoiding from throwing up because I find her mentally and physically unattractive, and she is constantly trying to initiate sex.  It doesn't help that she found my self gratification sex toys, so I can't use no sex as an excuse anymore.  Any suggestions?  Any comments? 


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