headisclearing wrote:


…... Can you be honest about lack of attraction to your wife?

Yeah I told her that day when I wanted the separation

This way you can both try to rekindle the flame?

I will keep my mind open

… her 6 month depressive episode took away this love..

Yeah…..I was hoping that my attraction would return after therapy and medication.  It hasn’t unfortunately returned.

 

fuffy0420 wrote:


...there is still good there...maybe?

Hard to say.  That’s why I want to see a marriage counselor. 

From what I read, the real problem for you is lack sexual attraction. Was there ever an attraction?

It was there before.  I don’t know why it disappeared.

It seems this is the sticking point for you, maybe?

Yes it is.  That’s why I still feel like she is my sister.

 

HIC & Fuffy:  Thank you for you comments and questions.  Feedback is a gift.  ( I bet you would have never thought a depressed person would say that)

 

-Not heading in the WrongWay