WW- I wrote a reply it got deleted somehow.
Your thank you to fluffy and I made me smile
Can I offer a suggestion, have you thought of trying to find yourself again.
As in focus on yourself as an individual with your own interests, passions, independence and maybe your wife could do the same?
Maybe if you both find yourselves again it will help the relationship find its spark
WW- one more q for you in your previous relationships have you fallen out of love before?