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Mar 10 13 7:39 AM
HIC: This also might help you gain some control from one of my previous posts:
Think of it like if:
§ Your Dso was a basketball with a bell inside the ball.
§ Depression is a soccer ball
§ You are represented as ‘one hand’
§ His life is balancing on the soccer ball
§ You see him falling so you push the other side to try to balance him
§ Every time the bell rings in the ball, he will go into a rage/depressive episode.
§ He is now falling on the opposite side
§ Constant adjustments is just delaying the inevitable, and ringing the bell constantly
§ At some point he is going to need to fall.
§ He will need to fall so he can learn to pick himself up. I had to learn that the hard way
I asked my wife how she handled me at my worst. She said she ignored my rants, set boundaries (like no name calling or biting remarks when in front of family.) She also found activities that helped her make her feel better.
-Not going in the Wrongway
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