I'm bumping this as a reminder of how hard it is to look inside and banish the personal demons. We all suffer with depression, yet those that are suffering from the disorder have the resources to make positive changes with much less effort. 

Remember that beneath all the drama, pain, suffering and extreme sadness is someone that has all the potential to be better and doesn't want to be the way they are. It puts it in perspective and your realize the greatest kindness may be patience and becoming an example of strength.