WW - that was very insightful, that even when the fog has cleared, you just remember with the red filter. I am continually shocked that my bpbf simply cannot remember our good times together, even when he is in a good place. He just remembers the bad moments. He's a tennis player. He remembers every single bad point played, goes over and over it in his mind, making himself feel worse and worse, and simply does not remember the good points. He is this way with our relationship. One bad moment will over rule ten beautiful moments.