VirginiaMama -- I did the same thing with my DH. He told me I had never said anything nice to him during our nearly 9-year marriage, yet he has kept all of the birthday and anniversary cards where I wrote how much I loved him and how special and important he is to me. I set all of those cards up on his dresser to refute his accusation. Of course, I'm sure he still doesn't "get it".

My heart goes out to you...