We are all guilty of it so dont take offence....dont read anything into their actions...poptart you rang he rang back...he obviously wasnt adverse to talking to you..but no emotion take out that you love him and actually see what you got back..nothing
 Mino...was there a spark or did u just see wot u wanted to see...You were invested he wasnt...your gonna analyse wot, where, why, how and hes not given you another thought.

There is no rhyme or reason to their actions ladies so dont let it get in your head...and again we all go through this amazing ,mixed signal mind +#%%.

Im curious why both of u  went against your good judgement amd contacted or said yes to going out...that I believe is what you need to focus on what need where u trying to address and hope they would meet. If you can figure that out then next time u feel the urge you can stop and find another way to meet that need without reaching out to an emotinally stunted individual who cant meet  it and will just make you feel worse...sorry if thats harsh but ladies when we do it we can all feel the pain and I can feel urs..the pain and hurt all over again