Miss c - i say this bc xdso contacted me out of blue to see how i was doing but saying i have to take part of blame in this?? Bc i didnt listen to him and bc i said i wouldnt give up on him snd because i never once strayed from being loving and supportive in the relationship. Said now we are over hes much clearer now and he added at end hes seeing someone romantically now. Wow what was the point of contactingme? I was doing well stitching myself up and he blows in and rips them all out. So i guess my message is that dont stick around for more pain bc it will come and we dont deserve to hear more hurtful things just to ruminate about.