Ange, when you put "feelings' in a box in your heart , it takes up space.... I remember my first love , I had 100 % of my heart to give, years later, it was broken, now I only had 65% of my heart to give, the next was 35% and before I knew it , I was at 15% .... all these boxes.....take room... So off I went to counseling... to learn how to throw those boxes out... not store them, where they take up room.... Sure it was easier, to just shut the box, and throw away the key, but I, at the end paid the price in my next relationship, along with the new partner, who really wasn't getting my whole heart...So 20 years later.... I was able to give my DP a pure, clean and 100% of my heart.... Its broke again... but I will be D*mned if I just throw all my hurts and feelings in a box and let it take up space again.... Rents not free.....Its always pay me now or pay me later.... so I rather pay it now...the interest is way to high, to just ignore...and love it so much better with a 100% of my heart.

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