Mino, I think you have a point there, our capacity for love is not infinite, some day, some time, it becomes spent unless we deal with our losses along the way. This is easier for me because I have accepted that this was the last time I will trust a man, so it is no longer an issue, I will not put myself in that space again, cant do it. I still dont really understand why most posters thought it was the wrong choice to send the letter I wrote. I have no expectations, there can be none as the relationship is completely over, so why do people think it was the wrong decision to say what I needed to say? Today I have really felt like his wellbeing, his mental health, what he is doing or not doing is no longer my responsibility, its what he wanted (in truth, that is what he told me almost two years ago when he first finished with me) and I have held on to it for far too long - so why do people think it was the wrong thing for me to do? To send the letter? I am genuinely interested,
regards,
Erin