I agree with you GG... with regards to Erin.

Even though nothing to salvage, counselling could help with acceptance, guidance and a clearer way forward.
I did counselling for 6 months all up and it helped immensely. It helps us actually shift the focus back on to Our own lives and what we want/need to feel content.

Great posts by the way!

Ange

Take  what  you  need . . .  leave  the  rest .Blue_butterfly