Hi Rabbit, I hope you are keeping up with your therapy. Have you any reason to believe he wants to open a dialogue with you? Are you able to get feedback from friends and relatives about how he is doing? If so, have they given you any indication about what he wants to do? If he's not in any kind of therapy or treatment, then he is unlikely to be dealing with his mental health, in which case dialogue is unlikely to be productive. In the meantime, have you been working through what you want to do? I know your answer will be that you want your husband back, but unfortunately at the moment you have no influence over his behaviour/actions. All you can do is concentrate on taking care of yourself,
hugs,
Erin