Mino, think seriously about this crossroads you are at, the past has a pattern and you know it. Are you sure you can trust your new man, does it feel right in your gut? You said that he was a commitment phob at the start, has that really changed? Do you have real feelings for him or are you on the rebound? You have alot to think about, but you also have a past history that has caused you alot of pain, I could not do fallout again and you have already done it twice - are you really prepared to set yourself up for this again at some time in the future?
hugs,
Erin