Mino:  It’s good and not good to see you back.  (If you know what I mean) You are at a tough point.  I don’t know what I would do in your shoes.  I just know you’ve been through an awful lot.  I will echo everyone else’s concerns

Is the new guy a rebound?

Is the new guy ready to commit ?

Is your DSO really in clarity or is this just a momentary thing?

Is your DSO stringing you along for his own support motives?

Are you sure his recovery is on the right path?

How are you feeling in all of this (maybe writing to us more will help sort out some feelings)?

What does your heart say?

Do you have the option of giving it more time if you can’t resolve which way to go?

I’m glad to see you are on the mend after a long rollercoaster ride.  If you need anything, you know where to find me.

-WW