Fuffy, thank you for sharing that. I thought the first MDE was the worst. Having heard that I would never want to get back with my ex after all the lies and emotional affairs and full on affairs.

Mino, you need to consider this. We all hope they will recover but D changes a person. Can you be sure you are going back to the same man? Could you handle fallout again? I certainly couldn't.

Take you time with this decision. If it's real with the new guy, then he will wait.

Hugs, Vel