Kwebb:  I’m sorry you are going through this.  As a recovering depressed person, and a former cheating spouse, I know my illness is huge part of why I cheated.  It is no excuse for what I did, but I know my depression is a huge contributing factor.  While she is in depression she will not be able to make sound decisions for herself.  I agree with Ange, and Erin.  You must take care of yourself for the sake of your child.  Your child needs you more than ever to have that stability.  If you have any questions or just need to vent, let me know.  I hope things will get better.  You might forgive her in time, but I know you will never forget those transgressions.  My thoughts are with you.

 

-WW