I think I have made up my mind. Tomorrow I'm meeting with her DR to tell them what I am noticing about her and to tell them she is no longer welcome in our home. I came to this decision last night when I found out that just minutes before I brought the kids to see her she was emailing the guy she met the last time she was in the hospital. I now feel that she is doing most of these things to hurt me and that's fine but I will no longer allow her to make my daughter cry herself to sleep. I fear that in order to hurt me she will harm my children so she will no longer be a part of there lives. I've never felt this terrible in my life with a decision but I think and hope it's the right one. Thank you for taking the time and reading my long post. I have a long road ahead.