I'd take him back in a heartbeat. I really would- because he makes me happy.


Really? Is this you as a happy person?

I know he made you happy once before- in the past- and you are desperately trying to recapture that- but right now, this man is not making you happy. And here's the hard part- he WON"T be making for happy for the foreseeable future.

So, big breath.......if/when he comes back....and that's a big IF btw- be the gal that simply got on with her own life without him. If he doesn't come back, you will have your own life. If he does come back, he'll be facing a woman who can stand her own ground with/or without him.

If you think being stubborn and stalwart and saying, "I always wait for him. I'm never giving up on him. I'm gonna prove that I was right cuz I know it's only a matter of minutes before he snaps out of this and comes running back to me"- well, you're setting yourself up for a fall and on the road to winning title of world's best victim.

Breaking up is insanely painful, and adding depression into the mix only multiplies the pain. But you can let go, break free and move on.

It's just a matter of doing so.

Your call.