Roo1, for your sake and only for your sake, dont let it be a repeat performance, tell him one final time for his stuff and then no more, everything else will be in a skip or given to charity. I know how hard contact is after the relationship has finally drawn to a sad and sorry close. I just feel how hard this must be for you to see him repeatedly for the purpose of dismantling your relationship, best be done with it once and for all, sorry if that sounds harsh, its not meant to be, it is just meant with your best interests at heart,
hugs,
Erin