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Aug 8 13 12:27 PM
"Wanting me to make a decision and say "we're done"The DSOs preference is for the SO to terminate the relationship as if he's looking through a keyhole and he needs her to sneak up behind him and say it. This would leave her looking through the keyhole at his problems, allowing him to flee from it recapturing his irresponsibility and shame in the process. He could then throw his viewing mask away as existentially she is never going to forget what she thinks he was looking at. He isn't going to remember the specifics, because nobody ever does. He is going to remember the possibilities and it is these which will make the relationship irretrievable.
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