just a quick update... my exdp is worse of then I thought... and I have decided to walk away for good, not to look back ever again... had a interesting conversation with him last week... I asked him who else is he being different? withdrawn too? He said "well no one" I cant do this to my daughter.... nor my ex wife..... and surely not to my mother... He spoke with a very childlike voice... At that moment ... I thought wow... he is out there... really out there... Over the last 9 months, I wrote many times about how he wanted me to cuddle with him.. ( he wanted and gave no affection while he was still home) So I asked why the change.... he answered... well I don't feel pressure, there is no commitment right now... and if we get back together you cannot keep throwing that in my face... Again... I felt a stab in the heart... Yesterday my friend told me that he actually hit on my 60 year old coworker month ago who just lost her husband the week before from a heart attack... she was mortified to say the least.... I reacted pretty crazy... Told him I heard that he hit on this poor woman and what a sic dog he was... This led back and forth to texting really bad things, I told him his freaking depression was nothing but a show, and he is playing the poor me victim role...and his dark side has taken over... its just crazy.... I do not know this person anymore... I am trying to wrap my head around this and I just don't understand... Who has he become? Was he always like this with a dark side, and I just didn't see it? I am moving forward with my life... but My mind keeps going to these questions....the things he was spewing out on text... wow.... its like Jekyll and Hyde..... I thought a few weeks ago he was on his way to recovery... but he is nowhere near it, its like its all an act...

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