Thanks Vel and Jessho ... i like the idea of putting me back in the drivers seat. It is amazing how he still controls me and my state of play. I got a text from his phone last saying "who is this please?" ... I mean really. I don't for a second think that he wrote that. A month of stonewalling me and then that, like he doesn't know my number? I think it may very well be his new interest. I didn't rise to the bait, and I am not going to pander to and become engaged in childish behaviour. If anything, it has helped me to see that YES, LIFE IS TOO SHORT and I want to get on and ENJOY THE JOURNEY. Man what a journey the last 6 months have been!