I found out he was cheating 2 weeks ago and my thought was , how sad for you and how sad for me. No breakdown,, no screaming just another layer of sadness. Actually it is all too sad. No light in his eyes, no smile on his face just anger and sadness. He is my best friend, my husband my lover and J don't even have the energy or passion tk be angry. I wish it could be closure but it isn't Just a dark, co, d, sad place for both of us .