MomObvious,

As I told J P before, sometimes, it's like they're playing some kinda cruel game. Hang in there ya; you're doing well. Yes right now, his depression is talking to you and you'll have to pretend you're the Man Of Steel (or rather Woman of Steel) to withstand his nonsense. It's great you're actively involved in his...rehabilitation. Hope with time, he gets better and you can breathe easier too. He's darned lucky to have you around.

Stay strong; sometimes we have to go through a storm first before we see bright, shiny days. To reiterate, you're doing well!