Unplainjane, it's totally alright to feel like you've had enough...we're only flesh and blood and there's only so much we can do. The boundary idea was good. If he doesn't stick to it, it's not your fault; he chose to be the odd one out. Yes yes! Just leave everything to God; He will take care of stuff for you, no matter how good or bad. Stay strong k. *patz*


Ellen O, sorry to hear about what you went through again. But you're doing spectacularly well now; hold on to that.


CBJ52, seems like you might need to both see the therapist together cos your DSO might be telling just her version of the story(which often is grossly skewed). It's either that or this therapist may not be effective and sensitive at picking up red flags and all. Just a thought only. Stay strong, buddy.Â