Sully;

Welcome back.  For what its worth, I would not trust him.  I was married for 28 years to the most lovable woman.  All that fell apart when she had a psychosis in 2012.  I've heard her phone conversations.  She is just plain untrustworthy.  It's the illness talking, but that doesn't mean we look beyond their behaviors.  Take care of yoorself first ALWAYS!

Hugs to you,
Pat