jalbers, I think if you still want to be good to him, then go ahead and tell his family members...I would probably tell his sister instead cos' there might be a backlash if you told his parents...if you don't care about the backlash, then go ahead and tell his parents...

The family members might take things negatively, but after a while...if they're sane human beings, they should know and understand that you did this out of love and concern...difficult to make a decision, I know...*patz*