Cosmic Seraph

Just a few of the things I picked up on

Unemotional, stress and working long hours, workaholic by any chance, or burying his head in work to avoid dealing with his issues? Mine thought the organisation could not cope without him, so instead of going off on sick leave he carried on, as a result of him not seeking help we believe the organisation got rid of him, he had a derisory pay off yet had worked for many years and was responsible for the success of the organisation, sadly no one is indispensable

He encouraged you to take your new job, mine did the same, I gave up 6 months into the contract as my DH turned weird, turned out he's really ill with BP or some other MH issue, as per our Doctor's advice I gave my job up, to cut a long story short I had to ask him to leave his behaviour fu**ed up our daughter, since giving up my career to support him I have had very little work and struggled to get back into the work place.

Take a look at the section from a depressives point of view, no amount of trying to support them will work, the mindset is negative and likely to remain permanent, we can't fix them they have to find the will to heal themselves.