Leemar - what an incredible journey you have been through. Do you hope to have him back fulltime, or is it all too much to comprehend. I imagine as he gets more help, then couples counseling would be a necessary step.

I am grateful that my ex is just that, an exdso. I cannot fathom the complications of all of this with a family at risk. How incredibly brave of you to make it through the year as strongly as you have.