Bluecar, you've done absolutely nothing wrong ya...you know your relationship best...if you reject him, it's definitely for a sound and logical reason...all of us here understand perfectly...so don't beat yourself up over this, girl. You're just trying to protect yourself, which is the right thing to do. He can keep trying...but whether it moves your heart is up to you already...accepting or rejecting him...you have FULL power to decide and we'll support you no matter what...

Smile ya...