Oh Ellen I feel for you.

I have similar contact with my xdso. He will reply to texts, agree to meet up - doesn't seem to be able to let go completely. But can't make that step to relationship so keeps contact so there is still something.

It's so hard to not get hopeful but as we know it can all change in the blink of an eye.

How do we keep those hopes in check as I'm struggling! I guess until we are ready to and make that decision it won't change as they are certainly not capable of knowing and sticking to a mindset.

*sigh*

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