Thanks Ellen, Clarkie and Inarut for your replies.

This has been one heck of a ride for sure. Things are very calm for the moment. I am just enjoying the peace. When you are full out in Fallout and things are completely spiralling out of control in every aspect of your life, it is nice right now that I am just taking a break from all of that. My garage door was stuck for the last couple of days so he came over while I was at work and fixed it. He left some groceries at the house. I am just appreciating a little bit of normal-- after months of torture and pain.
Inarut I agree about the bipolar and the ADs. In fact I almost panicked thinking he could go manic again. But then I think at least he is seeing a psychiatrist and admitting he has this. It is his fight--his life. So I am watching and hopefully things will continue to improve, but I am ready if he goes off the rails again. But I so hope and pray not. This illness is unbelievable how it changes a person. I still can't believe he did all these horrible things.