Trying to decide if divorce is the right step. Just don't know how to reconcile after all that has happened.....affairs, blaming. Our extended families are shredded. We have a 5 year old and 11 year old. Even if we miraculously reconnected, I don't know if my family could ever accept her into my life knowing all she did. My older sister walked in on her and my good friend holding each other in our daughters bedroom 2 New years eve ago. Sooooo bad.