That makes a great deal of sense too, unplainjane, thank you. You're absolutely right, we're all deserving of a loving, two-sided relationship. Yes, I'm hoping that she will be able to get the help she needs. I wish it could be now, but three weeks really isn't that big of a deal to start getting things back on track.

Thank you for that advice. I think you're right, we are both still quite young and while I love her and don't want to be without her right now, if things didn't get better in the long-run it would be hard if not impossible to deal with. The book definitely talks about that dilemma, where you love them and want the best for them, but you have to look out for your own interests and happiness too. I will definitely keep that in mind as I go forward. I appreciate the feedback!