Um I did the very same thing on Friday, I do not contact him unless absolutely necessary and only did so as we have practicalities like the sale of the home.

The DH did his usual trick of trying to push things onto me to do.

I have done everything, shown viewers round, negotiated the sale to dig us out of financial sh*t, sorted repairs with money from selling our furniture and benefits when I had very little money for food for our daughter and myself, emptied and cleaned the house for the new occupants.

I totally lost it told the Estate Agent not to contact me as I have moved a hundred miles away, he didn't get it? He's an insensitive sh*t and despite many months of telling him and my daughter telling him the true picture he still didn't get what we've been subjected to and what we've had to put up with so I flipped and told him to f**k off!

I emailed the DH telling him to stop getting people to contact me, told him to get on and deal with it as I'm done with it all, I did not expect a reply either, he responded with an ok and said the job that needed to be done would come out of the house sale, normally I would have hit back and responded again but I just totally ignored it, seems saying it as it is and ignoring them is the best way.

Ashley you will find that all emails will be cold and nasty, my DH is the same and that is after 30 plus years together, that is D for you.