Bobblinton- No he replied the next morning I didn't expect him too. I was vile in my first email so I wasn't surprised and there were some thing I needed to say to him that's why I continued the conversation. I know I probably shouldn't have.

Leemar - Thank you so much. It really truly is scary that the person we knew and loved is gone. For some reason I thought he might have an ounce of his caring self back but I guess not. Yeah I do kind of feel worse, now I know just not to contact him at all.

J27 - I'm so sorry you had to go through that. I can't even imagine after 30 years of marriage to just be so cold and uncaring. thank you for sharing that story. I do feel better knowing people on here are in similar situations.