This thread has hit home with me.

My partner was diagnosed last May and things have been up and down ever since.
In every down he contacts his ex to "talk to"?
I have no problem him talking to other women to be honest as he's always got on with them better but why this women? Why hide it, lie to me and just be sneaky about it all? Why can't he talk to me? I always thought we could tell each other everything ...how wrong was I??
This last down which he is still in actually resulted in him going on "a date" when he told me he was going on a lads night...even got his friend to say about it all when I got suspicious ......he was gone for less then an hour so I know nothing actually happened and when i found out where he actually was his response to why he went was ......he wanted to do something different with someone different!!! He's now been at his mums for 3 weeks after saying he wanted to leave for awhile he actually has :-(
He too has joined a dating site and when the emails came in about it I asked him why if he doesn't wany any relationship why say on there that he wants one and that he wants more kids when he doesn't?
He says he was just seeing what was out there??

I've not given up tho as i know this all isn't him and the man I love is still there somewhere but together we will find some part of him again.
We have been emailing and messaging pretty much every day since he went but I know he's contacting her ...and maybe someone else too, still!
The kids are going to my mums for a week on Friday and when I told him he offered to pick me up and bring me home which was great and yesterday he even suggested we go to the cinema which is fantastic...I'm really looking forward to it lol but i can't help but think who else is he messaging, what are they messaging and are they planning "dates" too??

I know I need to look out for me and the kids but this is so hard.....we were supposed to get married on November 1st this year.....that day is going to kill me!!

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